It is a point on my education I didn't quite agree with. [ His voice is wry, as that is something of an understatement. ] I wasn't often in charge, back then- but when I was and when I am now? I...fuss. Mostly because I wished for some fussing myself but it simply was not done and asking-

It was not an option.

I've been kind to him. I mean to continue should he have me again- he seems to need it more than most. I do not think he knows much of this side of things.